Preparation is everything in family court. Whether it is a motion, a case conference, or a trial, having a clear checklist helps you walk in organized and confident.
One Week Before
- Re-read all affidavits and court orders in your file
- Review the other party's most recent filed materials
- Organize your court binder by tab
- Confirm the date, time, courtroom, and format (in-person or virtual)
- Know your court file number
- Prepare a one-page summary of what you are asking for and why
Day Before
- Pack your court binder and all document copies
- Print three copies of anything you want the judge to see: one for you, one for the other party, one for the court
- Plan your route and parking
- Set two alarms
- Prepare what you will wear — dress professionally and conservatively
Day of Hearing
- Arrive at least 30 minutes early
- Check in with the court clerk
- Find your courtroom and confirm proceedings are running on time
- Do not argue with the other party in the hallway
- Silence your phone completely
- Have water and a notepad
In the Courtroom
- Stand when the judge enters and exits
- Address the judge as "Your Honour"
- Speak clearly and slowly
- Do not interrupt the other party or the judge
- If you do not understand a question, it is acceptable to ask for clarification
- Take notes throughout
After the Hearing
- Ask for a copy of the endorsement or order from the court clerk
- Note any next steps, deadlines, or upcoming dates
- Update your court binder immediately
What to Bring
- Photo ID
- Your court binder (organized by tab)
- Extra copies of key documents
- Pen and notepad
- Your court file number
- Contact information for the other party's lawyer (if applicable)
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Learn MoreRelated Resources
- How to Organize Your Court Documents
- How to Write an Affidavit in Ontario
- What to Expect at a Case Conference in Ontario
- SafeGround — Court Preparation Tools
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed professional for advice specific to your situation.